How Witches Safely Navigate Love Spells

“What is a love spell?” Jennifer, an acquaintance, asked.

“A love “spell” is a magickal process that draws love to someone, usually the caster of the spell,” I replied.

“What should you consider before casting a love spell?”

Because this is important and has serious consequences, Jennifer and I had a long conversation about love spells and such details.

Considerations:

  1. Why are you doing a love spell?

Are you serious about attracting your true love? Or are you just looking for a fling with someone? Love spells need to be taken seriously. You are making a real effect in the world. Witches pay attention to The Three Times Law. What you do will bounce back on you with three times the force. If you break someone’s heart or use a love spell to manipulate another person, you will create chaos in your own life.

  1. Who is the love spell going to affect?

If you are doing a spell on a particular person, STOP! This is not ethical. People have free will, and messing with that is definitely harmful. If you do something unethical, you harm yourself and your own karma. More than that, doing a spell on someone creates a karmic link between both of you. Making such a link can be like playing with fire. People get burned!

  1. How long is the love spell going to last?

All your spells really need an expiration date. A love spell needs such an expiration date, too.

  1. The Most Important Consideration: Create a Love Spell that Affects Yourself.

The way to do an ethical love spell is to do such a spell to yourself. You cast the love spell to draw love toward you. You make yourself more attractive to receiving love from appropriate sources.

Here is an example of wording you can use:

By the Lovely Lady of the moon
Make my True Love appear real soon
I send my wishes far and wide
Bring real love to my side
May I see this in one month’s time.
So Mote It Be.

* If you use a candle with this prayer to attract an appropriate permanent partner, use a red candle.

  1. Do a love spell on a waxing moon or full moon.

The timing of your spellcasting is crucial. To cast a love spell, do it on a waxing moon or full moon. You focus your magickal energy during a time of increase.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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How Witches Create True Renewal

Path in the woods

Have you said recently, “I need a vacation”?

Are you longing for some rest and renewal?

I have looked into creating different forms of minivacations. Minivacations provide renewal when you need it most. They are little breaks in the chaos of life.

Here are three insights about minivacations.

  1. You need a variety of minivacations because there are different types of renewal.

Just as we choose various types of food to eat, choosing different types of minivacations can help us flourish in life. This process creates a more balanced and renewed you.

When I thought about what a vacation can do, I realized these benefits:

  • Reinvigorate your spirit
  • Get a chance to step back from the rules (“Yes, I will have a second dessert. Thank you!”)
  • Take it easy
  • Enjoy novelty—that is, new sights, smells, tastes, and sounds.

Creating novelty is important because your brain craves new experiences.

For example, I have a set route for taking a walk each day. At times, my sweetie says, “How about we go in that other direction?”

  1. Pause and discover what your soul needs at this moment.

What do you need?

At this moment, I could use a nap. A 20-minute nap can feel truly refreshing. 20 minutes spares you from waking up groggy if you awaken in the middle of a sleep cycle. (Sleep cycles tend to be 90 minutes long.)

Do you need to feel some kind of hope?

Some of us feel renewed when we see a film or video that features an inspirational story.

Do you feel better after you express yourself creatively?

Perhaps, you would enjoy a few minutes of drawing or painting.

Other creative forms include music, dance, and writing.

The idea is to express yourself. We’re not talking about taking on a new chore or “job.” You do not need to show anyone your creative work. It’s just for fun.

Even 15 minutes of doing something creative may give you a big rush-feeling of new energy.

  1. Ask the Goddess to reveal what forms of minivacation can soothe your mind, body, and spirit.

The Gods are here for us and love it when we show appreciation. They are always here when we need guidance. Here is a prayer for guidance…

Reveal Prayer to the Gods

 Wise Lord and Gracious Lady
Open my mind and heart.
To forms of minivacations I can start.
From heart, mind, and soul
Let my creativity start to flow.
Let ideas in my mind glow!
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your journey.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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How Witches Deal with When Words Fail Them

“It was a bad one,” my friend, Sue, said, referring to an argument with her husband.

“I’m not sure how we’re coming back from this one,” Sue continued.

We had an extended conversation about how to deal with the times when words do not help a situation.

Here are three insights.

  1. Hear the other person out.

Hearing the other person out involves certain actions that help create trust and understanding.

I’ve learned to do these actions.

         A. Repeat what you heard as being what the person said.

I’ll say something like, “So, [talking to you first] is most important to you. Did I get it?” This helps my friend or family member know that I’m truly listening. This may help them calm down

          B. Ground your energy.

When my sweetie and I get into a tough conversation, we sit on the floor to keep us grounded.

As a witch, I realize that keeping grounded helps the conversation stay healthy. This helps you avoid negative escalation.

          C. If appropriate, express how you plan to make things better.

Many people want to know that their partner wants to make the future better. Saying something like, “Next time, I’ll talk with you about details before making a large-ticket purchase” can help. Having a plan can support your relationship.

  1. Do a kind action.

One time, my sweetie and I were in a tough conversation. Words were not helping. I got up and went over to him and gave him a hug. This quieted down the intense feelings.

  1. Hold hands and invite the Goddess in

This is an action of inviting the Goddess to support you and your loved one in the time of need.

A Prayer to the Goddess

Goddess,
We ask for Your support
Guide us to a resolution
Show us a solution
That we may not see
Help us feel our bond
For now and beyond.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your journey,

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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How Witches Welcome the True Abundance of Mabon

“I feel like I’m on the edge of a breakdown,” my friend, Lina, said.

“It’s good that now is the time of Mabon,” I replied.

“How’s that?”

We began a significant conversation.

Have you heard that Mabon is the witches’ Thanksgiving? This is the time of year where we count our blessings, and we express gratitude for positive things in our lives.

A good activity is to write a list of things you’re thankful for and your related reasons.

Mabon is one of the three harvest times of the year.

Here are three insights.

  1. Pause to Receive

If you remain stuck in your anxieties and worries, you likely will miss the blessings that are already present in your life. If you do not pause, you may keep blinders on and miss out on chances to receive.

For example, one time my friend, James, praised me for writing helpful blog posts. I just brushed it aside. I did not pause to feel good about two things: my blog posts are helpful and my friend was celebrating that detail. When I brushed James’ praise aside, I saw his face drop into a frown. I had failed to pause to receive.

What are you brushing aside? Is it time now for you to pause to receive?

  1. Become Open to Accept the Gift

My cat, Magick, is about 11 ½ years old, and he has been a true gift in my life. I had to become open to the gift of this special relationship with another being. To receive the gift, I needed to travel to the local Humane Society facility. I sat down among the kittens. I played with them and petted them.

Then two little eyes stared outward from a little kitty-cubby in the corner.

This little black cat strolled up to me. He sat down and caught my eye.

Over my shoulder, I heard the attendant say, “Oh, the black ones don’t get adopted.”

My intuition was clear. I said, “This one is getting adopted.”

I was open to receive the gift of Magick’s love.

What gift would be good for you to accept?

  1. Thank the Gods

One time I sat among friends in a park, and I poured a bit of wine onto the soil. My friend, Fred, said, “What are you doing?”

“It’s called a libation. I’m pouring this bit of wine as an offering to the Gods,” I said. Then, I expressed a sincere “thank you” to the Gods.

Perhaps, you might prefer to do a brief candle-lighting ritual.

Thanking the Gods is an essential element of the 3-part process: Pause to Receive, Become Open to Accept the Gift, and Thank the Gods.

What blessings are in your life? How will you thank the Gods for this time of Mabon—the time of harvest?

May these insights support your journey.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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How Witches Stop Anxiety from Draining Their Energy By Rising to Goddess’s Wavelength

“For once my anxiety stopped,” I said.

“Really! How?” my friend, Regina, asked.

“It was during a meditation session. I felt the presence of the Goddess and the God.”

“Did They say anything?”

“No,” I replied. “It was just a feeling. A feeling of being at peace and of coming home.”

I have three insights for you about stopping anxiety and rising to the Goddess’s Wavelength

  1. Slow down your breathing.

I’ve learned that your mind, body, and spirit are part of letting go of anxiety. Witches know that everything is connected. It’s like a glistening spider web in the morning. Every strand is essential. We are essential—and the wind, plants, animals—the whole natural world—is connected.

Realize your body is your temple. Witches call your body a temple because some traditions invite the Goddess into their own body. Here we’ll talk about your choice to adjust your breathing. Try it now. Breathe in slowly for two counts. Then breathe out slowly for two counts.

Individuals who do this breathing for 5 rounds find that relaxation appears in their body.

My friend, Alfonso, also adds this pattern before he goes to sleep. He relaxes his body by focusing on certain parts. He relaxes, in this order, his face, his left arm, his right arm, his left leg and foot, and then his right leg and foot. He finds this process to be helpful.

  1. Use your mind and choose deescalating words.

Have you ever got caught in a certain train of thought when you’re trying to fall asleep? At times in my life, I found myself ruminating about not being smart enough or that I can’t do anything right. 

I’ve learned that it helps to pick a mantra (set of words) to focus one’s mind. I pick deescalating words like “Just breathe” or “Goddess, give me peace.”

I find that this pattern helps me cool down.

  1. Tune into the Goddess’s Wavelength

“For My love is poured on the earth.” – the Goddess speaking, in the writings of Doreen Valiente

What’s is the Goddess’s Wavelength? It’s the energy of nurture, kindness, and love.

My friend, Alfonso, adds this pattern to his nightly process to fall asleep. As he breathes in slowly, he recites in his mind “Goddess.” As he breathes out, he says in his mind, “Thank you.” Alfonso says that this process takes him out of the level of thought where his anxiety resides. Alfonso, by speaking the name of Goddess, lifts himself to Her Wavelength.

How does this sound to you?

May these insights support your journey.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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Break Free with Goddess: Wiccans – How You Can Get Free of Worry, Illness and Anxiety and Enjoy Abundance, Health and Confidence

Be a Wiccan Badass: Become More Confident and Unleash Your Inner Power

Goddess Reveals Your Enchanted Light: Peace, Prosperity, Possibility Along Your Wiccan Path

Real Magick

Beyond the Law of Attraction to Real Magic: How You Can Remove Blocks to Prosperity, Happiness and Inner Peace

Goddess Has Your Back

Goddess Has Your Back: How Wicca Can Help You Raise Your Self-Esteem and Make Your Life Magickal

The Hidden Children of the Goddess Book

The Hidden Children of the Goddess Embrace Wicca, Become Strong, Be at Peace with Yourself and the World Around You

Goddess Walks Beside You: How You Can Listen, Learn and Enjoy the Wiccan Path

Goddess Style Weight Loss: Wiccans — Happy, Healthy and Confident

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