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Fortifying Your Boundaries (a Witch’s Perspective)

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“I’ve reached the end of my rope,” my friend, Rhonda, said. “I can’t bend anymore. I can’t take any more.”

I nodded.

I saw it in Rhonda’s eyes.
She knew that I understood.

That’s because she knew my story.
During my first marriage, I told my husband that we needed to have food in the house. But he didn’t care. He took care of himself by buying fast food. And overspending on his own video games.

That, plus more details, inspired me to go for a real boundary of “I’m not going to live like this.” I filed for divorce. One of my best decisions.

I have insights for you.

1. State your boundary. Make it brief. Say, “I need this.”

    During my first marriage, I would try to “make my case.”
    He did not listen. He did not care.
    Instead, I’ve learned to say, “I need this walkway clear.”

    That’s the full thought.

    I don’t need to plead and have to justify what I need.

    I have worth as a human being. The Gods placed divinity within me. And within you.

    “Live your earthly life fully, but try to see the spiritual aspects of your activities as well. Remember—the physical and spiritual are but reflections of each other.” – Scott Cunningham

    2. Realize that your boundary mirrors boundaries in nature.

    “We cannot and must not give love to others before we have respect and love for ourselves.” – Scott Cunningham

    Realize that the Goddess wants your well-being.

    I remember that the bark of a Redwood Tree is highly fire-resistant.

    The bark protects the tree’s core. Redwoods can survive all but the most extreme fires.

    Again, we, witches, learn from nature.

    Maintain a good and strong boundary.

    You, like the glorious Redwood Tree, are loved and valued by the God and Goddess.

    Here is a prayer you can use.

    Gods,
    Surround me with your protection,
    Like the mother bear who protects her young,
    Or the lion who protects his pride.
    Here me now, and surround me with
    your protection on this Day/Night!
    So Mote It Be!

    May these insights support you on your path.

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater

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    3 Signs You Are on the Right Path (A Witch’s Perspective)

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    At fourteen years old, I met the God and Goddess. It was a big surprise. Especially because I was on a retreat for a “conventional religious path.” The retreat leaders sent the attendees into the forest to have quiet time alone. (Well! They would have been surprised to hear about MY experience.)

    I didn’t see the God and Goddess. I felt Their Prescence. The big difference was that my depression symptoms quieted down. Peace flowed over me.

    Every day, my depression symptoms were like a rake clawing my arm. (But worse.)

    Then, when the God and Goddess appeared … it was like I let out a big, cleansing sigh.

    I have three insights for you.

    Here are signs that you’re on the right path …

    1. The Gods introduce themselves to you.

      In my experience and that of others I know, the Gods appear in the time of silence. Some people get “auditory Guidance.”

      My friend, Tiana, gets an “intuitive zing” up her back.

      From experience, she knows that the Gods are supporting her and guiding her.

      2. You see signs of affirmation.

      Imagine you actually see signs that you’re on the right path.

      You may see certain animals that represent the God and the Goddess. Perhaps, you’ll see a mature buck, raven, owl, white heron, or hawk. These animals are good signs that the Gods are guiding you.

      3. You have a knowing or intuitive sense of what to do.

      Sometimes, the Gods lead you through your intuition.

      The first time I encountered a book about Wicca in a bookstore (I miss you Borders!) … I felt like I was coming home.

      You may observe nature and feel a direct connection to something going on in your mundane life.

      Have you suddenly felt relief? – like a weight lifted from your shoulder?

      Or has your chest felt warm and full?

      It can be different for each individual.

      What we do observe is that one often needs to “go quiet” and “make space” for the knowing to appear.

      Learning the Craft is a path.

      Do you feel at home on this path?

      May these insights support your journey.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater

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      How You Can Deal with Anger in Yourself (a Witch’s Perspective) – Ep. 333

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      https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-tzcfm-1868719

      Moonwater uncovers spiritual and practical steps you can take to deal with your personal anger. Witches know about the proper use of energy. Anger can be transformed into a step upward on your journey. Moonwater reveals a prayer to the Goddess that can support your path.

      How You Can Ease Up on Beating Yourself Up (A Witch’s Perspective)

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      As I settle to sleep, I suddenly remember messing up when talking to a friend.
      “Damn!” I grumble.
      “You okay?” my husband asks.

      “I’m all right. Just thinking about something I messed up.”

      “You want to talk about it?”
      “Not now,” I say.

      Do you emotionally beat yourself up?
      I have three insights for you.

      1. Find healthy comfort.

        A hug from my husband can help. Or a bite of a chocolate chunky chip cookie. (Okay, I must avoid going to extreme on the cookies!)

        Comfort is not a cop-out.

        Comfort is a necessary part of life.

        Who or what provides you with some comfort?

        2. Get outside in the breeze and more.

        As a witch, you know your kinship with nature.
        Don’t hesitate. Get that 15-minute walk next to trees. Feel the breeze. See the sky.
        Connect with nature.
        Get out of the box (office).

        How can you experience your connection with nature?

        3. Make prayer your ladder upwards.

        In the mundane world, we humans have limitations.
        Call for reinforcements!

        Here is a prayer you can use.

        Gods, shift my mind from self-blaming,
        Keep me growing with kindness and self-love.
        Lift me up to Your light.
        So Mote It Be.

        May these insights support your path.

        Blessed Be,
        Moonwater

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        How Witches Put in Safeguards and Try the Spell – Ep. 314

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        Moonwater reveals the essential safeguards that keep you safe when you try a new spell. You can let go of fear when you invoke these vital four safeguards while you wield magick. Be safe and effective.

        How Witches Finally Find Out What Their Life is For – Ep. 296

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        https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-wq9wb-166bea3

        Moonwater reveals the secrets of how witches discover what their life is for. She uncovers ways witches can use times of confusion or feeling broken. Witches can use such times as important steps for living a fulfilling and authentic life.

        How Witches Rise from Being “Broken” – Ep. 295

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        https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-uzd2w-1660f46

        Do you feel broken? Moonwater feels deeply the pain of labeling oneself as broken. She deals with depression symptoms—for decades. She reveals how you can transform your experience of “being broken” and discover renewal on a fresh spiritual path.

        How Witches Bear the Unbearable – Ep. 291

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        https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gaqec-163b101

        Moonwater shares personal experiences and how witches can handle physical and emotional pain. She provides actionable insights and a new prayer to the Goddess to help you stay strong.

         

        How Witches Find Real Freedom – Ep. 269

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        How Witches Find Real Freedom – Ep. 269

        How Witches Prevent Premature Aging and Decay in Themselves – Ep. 268

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        How Witches Prevent Premature Aging and Decay in Themselves – Ep. 268