Discover Your Inner Power as a “Relaxed Witch”

“I don’t know the last time I felt relaxed,” Charice, a person in my circle, said.
“I could tell you about all the times I feel anxious,” she continued.

Have you noticed that many people in several cultures use the word “productive” like it’s a beacon of hope? Also, productivity is tied to self-worth.

Is being relaxed not productive?

Someone I know, Stephanie, told me that she found a truly helpful idea when she was in turmoil, during college.

“It’s called ‘the 50-minute hour,’” she told me. The idea is: You study for 50 minutes and then do something relaxing. Perhaps take a walk outside the building.

Another friend used to draw storyboards (illustrations for making a film) when taking a break from studying for college exams related to biology and physiological psychology.

A break to relax did support productivity.

Also, it gave my friends ways to be in the world outside of a state of Rush-Rush.

Here are insights to support you in becoming a Relaxed Witch.

1. Imagine “Relaxed” as “In Tune”

    If all you do is focus on the fearmongering and rage baiting of social media, you’re not in tune with nature. How can you be relaxed? Feeling anxiety and adrenaline keeps you separate from your essence as a Relaxed Witch.

    Being in tune is related to self-care.

    2. Identify what Self-Care is to you

    Ask yourself: What do I feel is the Self-Care I need?

    Here are some Self-Care ideas:

    1. A ritual bath.
    2. Doing your own nails.
    3. Making a magickal cup of tea or coffee.
    4. Do an extended grounding exercise.
    5. Enjoy your own spa day.

    What would you like to do as self-care?

    3. Take a Breath

    We often take our breath for granted. But it can feed our soul.

    Why?

    Our breath feeds our bodies. It also carries our magickal words of power.

    Deep breathing helps us center ourselves and can be done anywhere we feel safe.

    It can be done during our lunch break in our car, at home, or on a walk in the woods.

    4. Say a prayer for Self-Care

    Here is a prayer you can use.

    As I breathe 1, 2, 3,
    Help me manage the rising tornado in me.
    I ask Air to calm the winds down.
    I ask Earth to stand my ground,
    Let Fire shift down low.
    And Water wash my anxiety just so.
    As I will, so mote it be!

    May these insights support your path. 

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater


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    Give Yourself the Tarot Advantage Before You Make a Decision (A Witch’s Perspective)

    “I realized that every decision is like making a bet,” Nancy, a person in my circle, said.

    “How so?” I asked.

    “You don’t have all the information. Even if you make a rational decision, there’s an element of luck involved,” she said.

    I reflected on this.

    We, witches, can have an advantage.

    You could decide to include Tarot Cards in your practice of the Craft.

    Here are helpful insights.

    1. Prepare your energy before you do a spread of Tarot Cards.

      “The magic begins in you. Feel your own energy, and realize similar energy exists within the Earth, stones, plants, water, wind, fire, colours, and animals.” – Scott Cunningham

      Pay attention to your current state of energy. Are you okay? Are you exhausted?

      Here’s the important point: If you are upset, you could read a Tarot Spread incorrectly. This incorrect reading could further fuel your problems.

      Instead, make sure to first ground and center your energy.

      2. Use a dedicated Tarot cloth for your spread of Tarot Cards.

      The purpose here is to keep the energy of your spread of cards separate from other energies. This is also important if you travel and do a spread in different places.

      Other benefits include:

      1. Keep your cards clean.
      2. This also provides part of a good ritual.

      3. Make sure your question is precise.

      A vague question can lead to a muddy answer.

      Here are examples of better questions:

      1. What step do I need to take to increase my financial abundance?
      2. Will I meet a good business contact at the Networking Event on Elm Street today?

      Let’s Pull This All Together

      Making better decisions can include a careful and well-thought-out approach to using Tarot Cards.

      May these insights support your path.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      A Shift in Focus and You Find the Goddess Path (a Witch’s Perspective)

      Path in the woods

      “Owwww! This pain is … just too much,” Stephen, a person in my circle, said.
      He endured oral surgery, and then, when the anesthetic wore off, he barely held on with Tylenol and Ibuprofen.

      What helped? Talking on the phone with friends. How? When talking with a friend, Stephen’s focus would shift. The pain would go into the background. Sometimes for a couple of minutes … or more.

      We, Wiccans and witches, can tune into our spiritual path. We can direct our focus.

      “In truly understanding the Goddess and God, one comes to understand life, for the two are inextricably entwined. Live your earthly life fully, but try to see the spiritual aspects of your activities as well. Remember—the physical and spiritual are but reflections of each other.” – Scott Cunningham

      I reflected on this.
      I notice two different types of focus.

      One type is a focus on gratitude.

      The other type is “what is not perfect.”  An example is: The parent insists that the kid is never good enough.

      It all depends on what you focus your mind on.

      The focus on gratitude can shift your inner energy.
      Stephen found that in his warm connection with a friend, his inner energy went from suffering to gratitude and connection.

      “To me, magic is the movement of subtle, natural energies to manifest needed change.” – Scott Cunningham

      What do you need to change?
      Would you like to do a simple candle ritual?

      Remember, your focus can elevate your life. The Goddess meets you on that elevated path.

      Here is a prayer you can use:

      Goddess,
      Help me shift my focus to the good things in life.
      Help my mind heal my body and soul.
      Inspire me into gratitude for all You have given me
      So Mote It Be.

      May these insights support your path.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      To the Gods’ Will (A Witch’s Perspective)

      “What about receiving intuitive thoughts from the Gods?” Jim, someone in my circle, asked.

      Later, I reflected on this.

      What would be an indication that the thought originated with the Gods?

      One of my spiritual elders suggested, “It would not be ego-focused. And, it would not harm you.”

      Look at what the Goddess said:

      “Keep pure your highest ideal; strive ever toward it; let naught stop you or turn you aside.” – The Goddess speaking in The Charge of the Goddess, as written by Doreen Valiente

      So, if a thought is negative and makes your life worse, it is NOT from the Gods.

      “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.” – Kahlil Gibran

      “Maybe some of our painful experiences are necessary to open our understanding,” one of my spiritual elders said.

      I thought about this. Perhaps, breaking old habits that are bad for you … may bring pain.

      So, pain may be unwanted. But we can have a different thought. How about… “What can I learn from this?”

      Or “How can I have empathy, now that I have experienced this tough situation?”

      The Goddess stands with you.
      What is Her will? That you show kindness to yourself, humans, and other beings.
      Nature is our home.

      Now, how will you honor the Goddess, your true self, and your home?

      May these insights support your journey.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      Falling Out of “Resonating” with Another Person – a Goddess Perspective

      “We don’t call each other anymore,” Alicia, someone in my circle, said. She was talking about her estrangement from her former best friend, Cynthia.

      “Are you okay with that?” I asked.

      “No,” Alicia began. “But it’s like we don’t get each other anymore.” She frowned. “But I still miss her. At least, I miss what we had … who we were … some time ago.”

      Recently, I realized I no longer think about my first husband. We met when I was 17 years old. We got married at 18. And, we were divorced in my early 20s.

      I’m not the person I was when I was next to him. Thank Goddess!

      I recall this quote, which shows the Goddess’s perspective.

      “Ye who are feign to learn all sorcery, who have not yet won its deepest secrets, to these will I teach that which is yet unknown. And ye shall be free from slavery…” The Goddess in The Charge of the Goddess, as written by Doreen Valiente.

      To stay with the person who is anti-how you are resonating now … is a form of slavery.

      Goddess supports you to grow into the highest expression of your essence.

      Are you now resonating on a higher vibration?
      Is it time to let someone go or to reduce your exposure to them?

      Remember, the Goddess is as close as your next prayer.

      May these insights support your path.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      What I Learned During My Hospital Stay Plus a Surprising Insight from the Goddess

      “Isn’t it about the medical team gathering to help you?” my friend, Alicia, asked.

      “It is … and it’s not enough,” I said.

      I’m deeply thankful to the nurses and the doctors … and I do not have a definitive diagnosis at this time.

      “In truly understanding the Goddess and God, one comes to understand life, for the two are inextricably entwined. Live your earthly life fully, but try to see the spiritual aspects of your activities as well. Remember—the physical and spiritual are but reflections of each other.” – Scott Cunningham

      What did I learn in the nights in the hospital – that included screams coming down the hall?

      As I talked with the Goddess, I felt an internal shift that quieted my worries.

      Also, I realized that it’s necessary to stay strong in these areas:

      (I’ll use the Elements as a framework.)

      1. Air … keep your thoughts as clear as possible
      2. Water … gather support, express your emotions in healthy ways
      3. Fire … eat, and take in nutrition. You need energy (fire) to make good decisions
      4. Earth … stay grounded (sitting in the hospital bed, I prayed and talked with the God and the Goddess.

      May these insights support your path.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      Honor Your Cycle of Blossoming (A Witch’s Perspective) – EP. 377

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      Moonwater reveals the secrets of timing and how people blossom or fall prey to “Winter.” Learn a powerful prayer to the Goddess for support in handling mismatches of timing with other people.

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      A Rhyme in Time – Improve Your Magick Spells – Ep. 375

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      Moonwater reveals a method to elevate the power and effectiveness of your spells … using words that rhyme. She shares a powerful prayer to help you connect with your creativity. You also invite the God and Goddess to support you.

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      Missing Closeness in Relationships – See What Goddess Points To … (A Witch’s Perspective)

      “I don’t think she cares anymore,” my friend, Bert, said of his wife.

      I reflected on this.

      Bert, like many men, places all the burden of emotional support on his wife.

      It’s heavy!

      A comedian noted that when a wife dies, the man falls apart.

      However, when the man dies, the widow carries on with grace because she has a group of women to support her.

      I thought about this. The Goddess directs our attention to nature.

      I have two insights for you.

      1. In an ecosystem, each being plays a role.

      I like sharks. Now, do I want to swim with them? – No!

      There was a book called How to Swim with the Sharks…

      No thanks. I’ll swim in a swimming pool.

      But sharks, the coral reef, lionfish, sea turtles, and sea anemones all play a role.

      So, if you want more closeness in a relationship, make sure you have an ecosystem – that is, a community.

      Then, you can relieve the relationship of some emotional burden.

      You can come back together refreshed and open to your special bond.

      2. The Goddess revels in Her Three Phases.

      The God respects the Goddess. And She respects Herself.

      We, witches, find grace and peace when we flow through our phases.

      I think about my teen years. My face had no creases.

      But I’ll celebrate my wisdom right now.

      How about you?

      Are you finding your personal value in the phase of life you’re in now?

      May these insights support your path.

      Blessed Be,
      Moonwater


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      A Brave New Year – The Tarot and Escaping the Comparison Trap – A Witch’s Perspective

      A New Year. Thank Goddess! 2024—good riddance. Tough year.
      Parents with troubles at the senior facility. (It’s called facility-for-profit!)
      My husband’s parents had trouble. Oh, and his mother died. And he got physically attacked at work. Crap year. Bye, 2024.

      Hellooooo 2025.
      Have you tried New Year’s Resolutions?
      No fun? Me, too.

      Here are three insights.

      1. Envision Your Personal Unique Path for 2025.

        “Let there be beauty and strength, power and compassion, honor and humility, mirth and reverence within you.” – The Goddess in The Charge of the Goddess, written by Doreen Valiente

        Some of the word pairs in the quote seem to be “opposites.”
        Power without compassion can be evil.
        Humor (mirth) and reverence—good stuff.

        Here’s the problem.
        Humans seem to be Comparison-making Machines.
        We look around to gauge… Am I okay?
        Why does that other person get the promotion? (Or to even keep the job?)

        Politicians love to say, “Are you doing better now?”
        Compared to what?

        Here’s the good news. The God and Goddess put divinity into you.
        You are gifted with a personal unique path.

        Let’s escape the Comparison Trap.

        Let’s begin with your heart. That’s what counts. (Not what other people are doing in their own lives. Yes, letting go of comparison.)

        What does your heart want for 2025?

        2. Arrange your daily life to nurture both the mundane AND the spiritual.

        “Live your earthly life fully, but try to see the spiritual aspects of your activities as well.” – Scott Cunningham

        How are things going for you?
        Are you doing well enough on the mundane level?

        There’s an old phrase: “Treat yourself as a good animal.” What’s that? Eat, sleep, and move so that your body is well-supported.

        And … treat your spirit well, too.

        How? Ritual, meditation, time in nature…

        This is part of a process to reconnect with your spiritual essence and the God and Goddess.

        People are driven to eat for survival on the mundane level.

        However, we need to choose to devote time and effort to experience existence on the spiritual level.

        Are you going to be sure to devote time to ritual, meditation, and more – in this New Year 2025?

        3. Ask the Goddess to Guide Your Tarot Process of the “New Year’s 6 Card Spread.”

        Recently, I did a “New Year’s 6 Card Spread” for myself.

        Here are the elements of the Spread:

        1st card: Theme of the New Year 2025

        2nd card: Where you are starting from

        3rd card: Your path forward to prosperity

        4th card: What you need to learn

        5th card: Trials along the way

        6th card: Things to consider during your journey

        Important Facets of the Tarot Process:

        1. It is truly helpful to ground and center. You get in line with yourself before you start the Tarot Process.
        2. Realize that your spread is a “picture” of one moment in time. Just by studying your spread, you are likely moving the pieces of your future. If you see a “warning,” then you can modify your behavior. (This is a reason that doing multiple spreads over time can be helpful. My spiritual elders advise avoiding doing a daily spread on the same question. It can be excessive.)
        3. Realize that an inverted card does not always mean “awful.” It can mean a new angle to the topic.

        What is your vision for the New Year 2025?

        May these insights support your journey.

        Blessed Be,
        Moonwater


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