How to Communicate Something Tough and Avoid Somebody Shutting Down (a Witch’s Perspective)

“My husband just shuts down,” my friend, Lisa, said. “I can’t get him to correct what he’s doing.”

Later, I had a thought based on some Wiccan and magick ideas.

Here are three insights.

1. Carefully choose words, and you wield energy.

“Magic isn’t the empty parroting of words and actions; it is an involved, emotionally charged experience in which the words and actions are used as focal points or keys to unlock the power that we all possess.” –  Scott Cunningham

You have the power to encourage or shut down a person.

Notice this difference:

  • Option One: “When are you going to listen to me? You just don’t care.”
  • Option Two: “Hey, thanks for clearing the filter for the sink.” (The other person smiles. Then you add something like…) Oh, I had another idea. Is this an okay time to talk “logistics”?

As Scott wrote: “words and actions are used as focal points or keys to unlock the power that we all possess.”

2. You influence certain people in ways more than you know.

If someone cares about you, they’d like to succeed in doing something good for you.

I remember inadvertently overhearing two spouses, “Sam and Janet.”
Sam looked back at Janet to see if Sam’s washing her car had made Janet happier.
No. She just made another request.

Sam did NOT get a moment of success at trying to please her.

It’s about giving your loved one some space to feel good.

In my own life, I need to take care of myself. And that’s tough when I’ve lost sleep. So sometimes, I schedule a nap.

I come back with renewed energy.

My husband and I enjoy a better interaction after that.

“On waking in the morning, try to make your first words pleasant, for this brings good fortune for the entire day.” – Scott Cunningham

3. Ask, in prayer, that the Goddess guide your words

Here is a prayer you can use.

Goddess,
Guide my words that they may comfort others,
Help me hold my tongue when the words are sharp.
Support me to take care of myself, mind and body.
May I be grateful for every blessing.
So Mote It Be

As witches, we notice the value of being flexible like the willow tree. May we meditate, conduct ritual, and pray to maintain our flexibility.

And remember this: 

“That perhaps is at the core of Wicca–it is a joyous union with nature. The earth is a manifestation of divine energy. Wicca’s temples are flower-splashed meadows, forests, beaches, and deserts.” – Scott Cunningham

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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Burst through the “It’s Good for You” Wall (a Witch’s Perspective)

“What’s good for you—that’s Wicca—that you don’t do?” my friend, Margarette, said.
“Meditate more often,” I said.
“What holds you back?”
“It’s a freakin’ cliché. I have no time in the morning. I’m too tired at the end of the day. And, I spend my day mostly taking care of my parents (often). And one diabetic cat,” I said, my shoulders drooping.
Margarette nodded. She looked sad.

I have an insight for you.

Attach The Good For You Action to Something You’re Already Doing

Something good for me is to do an action that makes me feel better.

For example, my husband massages my back every night. (Yeah, I feel lucky.)

But I just don’t get around to massaging his back.

I don’t feel good about not supporting the Love of My Life.

Except, now I’m turning that around. Now, I’ll take 10 seconds to massage the trapezius muscles next to his neck when I walk past him to my workstation (in our home).

10 seconds is better than nothing.

He smiles and says, “Wow! You remove a lot of tension from my trapezius muscles in a short time!”

So I’m going to walk past him anyway. I’ve just attached being kind to my husband (and I feel better) to my daily action.

My way to add Wicca to these 10 Seconds is to say a prayer like: “God and Goddess, thank you for my sweetheart. May he feel safe in my arms and loved.”

What would be good for you to add to your daily life?

Here’s a helpful prayer.

Goddess,
Guide me to make time for
What’s good for me,
What’s important to me,
What makes me smile.
So Mote It Be.

May this insight support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater


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A Brave New Year – The Tarot and Escaping the Comparison Trap – A Witch’s Perspective

A New Year. Thank Goddess! 2024—good riddance. Tough year.
Parents with troubles at the senior facility. (It’s called facility-for-profit!)
My husband’s parents had trouble. Oh, and his mother died. And he got physically attacked at work. Crap year. Bye, 2024.

Hellooooo 2025.
Have you tried New Year’s Resolutions?
No fun? Me, too.

Here are three insights.

1. Envision Your Personal Unique Path for 2025.

    “Let there be beauty and strength, power and compassion, honor and humility, mirth and reverence within you.” – The Goddess in The Charge of the Goddess, written by Doreen Valiente

    Some of the word pairs in the quote seem to be “opposites.”
    Power without compassion can be evil.
    Humor (mirth) and reverence—good stuff.

    Here’s the problem.
    Humans seem to be Comparison-making Machines.
    We look around to gauge… Am I okay?
    Why does that other person get the promotion? (Or to even keep the job?)

    Politicians love to say, “Are you doing better now?”
    Compared to what?

    Here’s the good news. The God and Goddess put divinity into you.
    You are gifted with a personal unique path.

    Let’s escape the Comparison Trap.

    Let’s begin with your heart. That’s what counts. (Not what other people are doing in their own lives. Yes, letting go of comparison.)

    What does your heart want for 2025?

    2. Arrange your daily life to nurture both the mundane AND the spiritual.

    “Live your earthly life fully, but try to see the spiritual aspects of your activities as well.” – Scott Cunningham

    How are things going for you?
    Are you doing well enough on the mundane level?

    There’s an old phrase: “Treat yourself as a good animal.” What’s that? Eat, sleep, and move so that your body is well-supported.

    And … treat your spirit well, too.

    How? Ritual, meditation, time in nature…

    This is part of a process to reconnect with your spiritual essence and the God and Goddess.

    People are driven to eat for survival on the mundane level.

    However, we need to choose to devote time and effort to experience existence on the spiritual level.

    Are you going to be sure to devote time to ritual, meditation, and more – in this New Year 2025?

    3. Ask the Goddess to Guide Your Tarot Process of the “New Year’s 6 Card Spread.”

    Recently, I did a “New Year’s 6 Card Spread” for myself.

    Here are the elements of the Spread:

    1st card: Theme of the New Year 2025

    2nd card: Where you are starting from

    3rd card: Your path forward to prosperity

    4th card: What you need to learn

    5th card: Trials along the way

    6th card: Things to consider during your journey

    Important Facets of the Tarot Process:

    1. It is truly helpful to ground and center. You get in line with yourself before you start the Tarot Process.
    2. Realize that your spread is a “picture” of one moment in time. Just by studying your spread, you are likely moving the pieces of your future. If you see a “warning,” then you can modify your behavior. (This is a reason that doing multiple spreads over time can be helpful. My spiritual elders advise avoiding doing a daily spread on the same question. It can be excessive.)
    3. Realize that an inverted card does not always mean “awful.” It can mean a new angle to the topic.

    What is your vision for the New Year 2025?

    May these insights support your journey.

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater


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    How Witches Experience the Privileges of Being Wiccan

    When I found Wicca, it was like coming home. A whole new world opened to me. And of course, I discovered the God and the Goddess. Here is something amazing. You have privileges as a witch.

    I have four insights for you.

    1. You can be close to the God and Goddess

    You can communicate and be close to the Gods.

    Do you pray? Or do you meditate? Using these tools as a witch we can communicate with the God and Goddess. They are only your next breath away. You can say a prayer now. Something  like:

    “Goddess, thank You for the comfort you give me now. So Mote It Be.”

    What would you like to pray about?

    2. You can wield magick for your benefit and all involved.

    Ever daydream about a dream job? Want to get a raise or make more money with your own business? In these situations, and more, witches can use magick for their benefit.

    I have learned that a combination of magick and taking practical actions in the mundane world makes abundance happen.

    What would you like to manifest? What form of spell would you like to do?

    3. You can experience community.

    You can have a family-by-choice. It is true we can’t choose our family by blood. But we can have a chosen family by making good decisions.

    I have learned that aligning with your spiritual family and certain friends can make for strong bonds. Bonds that are more nurturing than many bonds with family by blood.

    Who in your life encourages you? Do you want to devote more time to the encouragers in your life?

    4. You can avoid being tossed about seeking your personal worth from the human-mundane world.

    If you must seek your personal worth from any human, you’re in trouble. Why?

    Because human beings have flaws. Many are so self-focused that they have no room for you. Have you ever gone to a parent or sibling for comfort and they just ignored you?

    Realize that your true worth is the divinity that the God and Goddess placed within you.

    Sure, you can work to accomplish something in the mundane world. But you do not have to earn your worth. You already have a divine nature. It’s something to celebrate!

    When we incarnate, it’s like we put on blinders.

    When you pray and meditate, you take off the blinders, even for a few moments. You connect with your real worth—your divine worth.

    Do you want to add or grow your rituals of prayer or meditation?

    May these insights support your path.

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater


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    How Witches Integrate Ritual in Their Lives

    Casting Circle

    Have you found that feeling tired—or having no extra time—has kept you from doing ritual?

    We, Wiccans, know about holding an Esbat ritual during the full moon each month.

    We also have the Sabbats that occur at specific times. They follow the Wheel of the Year.

    Here’s a real solution. Connect your moments of worship of the God and Goddess with something you do as a natural part of the day.

    For example, I have a friend who does daily exercises. Just before he begins his back-stretching exercises, he says, “Thank you, God and Goddess.” It just takes a moment. He tells me that it blesses his life.

    You can use a ritual of massaging your feet with oil while you say a prayer of thanks—before you go to sleep for the night.

    Here is a prayer you can use just before you brush your teeth in the morning.

    Prayer of “Thank You for This Day”

    Bless me, Goddess, this day
    Guide me on my way
    May I stay on the path
    And grow in the Craft
    May I express my best
    ‘Til night when I rest.
    Thank you, Goddess.
    So Mote It Be.

    May this process bless your life.

    Blessed Be,
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    How Witches Can Get and Use Music in Their Rituals

    Have you used music to enhance your rituals? Using music can help you raise powerful energy in your Circle. It’s a great way to step up the process—especially when you have some music with a good beat.

    Music can assist you in raising more power than you normally would.

    Here are some ways to add music to your ritual:

    • Pre-recorded Music

    If you’re like me, and you don’t regularly play an instrument, you may find that prerecorded music is pure gold. You can choose from so many great artists’ work. You’ll find any style or mood you’d like.

    • Music Played Live

    Perhaps, someone in your coven is a musician. Additionally, you could have coven mates join in with something simple like drumming, singing, chanting, or humming.

    • Use Music in a Combined Format

    Consider having a coven mate who has an instrument and some recording device to record a foundation of music. That is, the person could prerecord a percussion line of music or even add a base guitar to it (depending on their recording equipment … plus one can carefully access recording software like Audacity).

    For example, you could use drums to create a basic rhythm and prerecord that. Then, during ritual, you and your coven mates can sing, chant or play other instruments live.

    May this process bless your life.

    Blessed Be,
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    How Witches Handle Having No Energy for Ritual

    How many times have you had a fleeting thought of “I should do a ritual”—but you just didn’t have the energy?

    Just five minutes ago, I thought, “I should light a candle for Squat (Goddess of parking spaces).” For a moment, I felt—oh, just let me stay in this chair for a few more minutes. Fortunately, I mustered the energy to rise and light the candle in thanksgiving for Squat’s kindness.

    Here are some insights about gathering energy so you do the rituals to bless your life.

    • Do you need more sleep?

    So many of us are existing on the edge of not enough sleep to function. You could be stressed out. How ironic that when we need sleep the most, we find that we have trouble sleeping. I found these actions to help. Before going to bed, I’ve had a nice cup of chamomile tea. Sometimes, I have a glass of milk. Ask the Gods for their help when you lay down for sleep.

    Double-check if you’re experiencing medical difficulties that cause sleep trouble. I saw a doctor and discovered that I need a CPAP machine to help me deal with sleep apnea. I find that the CPAP machine really helps. (It also removes my snoring!)

    • Make your ritual simple and a routine.

    Human beings can get something done when it is a simple routine. When X happens, I do Y. For example, if a friend asks for my spiritual support, I do a candle lighting ritual (To see an example of a Candle Healing Spell—click here.) It takes little time, and I do not need much energy to complete it.

    • Do ritual with fellow covenmates on a regular schedule.

    Sometimes, we just need help from friends. If you find you’re going through a tough time and you have just a bit of energy to function, then reach out to fellow witches. Perhaps, join a coven. Or if you already belong to a coven, ask your covenmates to join you in doing a ritual. It’s even better when you do rituals, perhaps, two times each month. This regular schedule builds relationships. Additionally, the energy you and covenmates raise will be substantially more than you could create alone.

    May this process bless your journey.

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater



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    The Flame Within You

    Fire

    “Ahhh. My throat’s on fire and my ears hurt,” my friend, Sharon, said when describing how sick she felt.

    Her comment inspired me to think about how, at this time, many of us are having our internal flame diminished.

    How can we stoke and tend the flame within?

    Getting a cold, having allergies or just feeling shut away from the light of the Gods can really be a downer. This is when we need to feed the fire within.

    Doing ritual can help us keep our internal flame lit.

    “With the discovery of fire-making, ritual may have started. You did this and this, and up sprang the magickal flame, a spirit at your command.” – Gerald B. Gardner

    Consider the Element Fire.  As humans learned to harness the benefits of fire, we discovered an essential part of our rituals. What rituals can we do to keep our flame roaring not just a weak glow?

    Here are three things you can do to keep your flame bright and powerful:

    • Walk in the Wild

    Recently, I’ve seen materials from doctors mentioning ecotherapy. Ecotherapy is defined as “exposure to nature and the outdoors as a form or component of psychotherapy.” (yourdictionary.com)

    Witches have long known that nature is good for us. Now, doctors have finally started to catch on.

    I love walking in nature. Why? Because plants, trees, and water around us take in the toxins and free a person from such toxins. Because I deal with symptoms of clinical depression, I walk in nature to become free of sadness, anxiety, and fear found in my body and soul. This does help me. Getting a thorough cleaning and being close to the God and Goddess always brings me joy.

    The doctors may not yet know the true reasons why walking in nature is beneficial, but we, witches, know how it works.

    For city dwellers, at least, talk a walk on a street decorated with living trees or walk in a public park.

    • Read Wiccan Books

    Make reading a natural part of your day. Support your inner flame by reading in the direction your curiosity takes you.

    At this dark time of the year, many Wiccans refrain from doing active magick.

    What you can do is to immerse yourself in Wiccan education. (I believe in this and I created on online course Goddess Style Weight Loss – see the video)

    How do you make reading a ritual? Pick a certain place and a certain time. You could light a candle, sit down with a nice cup of tea, and read … and smile.

    • Meditate and Enter a Good Place—In This Moment

    Wiccans use meditation to connect with all that is good in this moment. Focusing on your breath can be part of your gratitude-ritual. You are grateful for every breath of life—the gift from God and Goddess.

    Here is a pattern:

    Breathe in.
    I stoke the Flame of Life.

    Breathe out.
    I breathe out all stress and strife.

    A Bonus Idea: Meditation can also kindle your positive anticipation for future good things. Think of what you would like to work on next year. Write down your thoughts on separate slips of paper and then place each item, one at a time, on your altar and meditate on how you want to accomplish the different goals.

    You can light a candle and play some soft, relaxing music in the background.

    In summary, I invite you to keep your internal flame bright and powerful.

    Remember:

    • Walk in the Wild
    • Read Wiccan Books
    • Meditate and Enter a Good Place—In This Moment

    Blessed Be,
    Moonwater


     

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    Why Do Wiccans Do Ritual?

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    I just wanted to thank all my readers in over 112 countries, new and established. Thank you for all your support. Now for our featured post:

    Why Do Wiccans Do Ritual?

    It was a tough time. Bills were closing in on me. I felt desperate. I reached for something that is constant: The presence of the Gods and Goddesses. How to feel Their presence? – do a ritual.

    Further, Wiccans do rituals to attune themselves to the cycles of the earth.

    We do ritual to change ourselves for the better. We even change how we perceive ourselves and in so doing change the world around us.

    Because of all of the above, ritual is a powerful tool.

    We use some rituals to acknowledge the different stages of life, and in this way change ourselves forever. Stages include: reaching puberty, hand-fasting (Wiccan Marriage) and even for reaching elder status.

    Ritual can help us create a true understanding of ourselves. We take a first step to a new reality for us. We get a new perception that assists us to make different decisions which can completely change our lives.

    Above, I talked about the tough time with bills closing in. That was 2012. I needed to change my reality. So I did a ritual. In preparation for that ritual, I used another tool–meditation.

    The meditation (which can be a ritual in and of itself) led me to the answer of doing a particular ritual.

    Enduring financial troubles, I needed more income. I had tried the quick fix spells for more money. Those spells backfired. So if these spells were not working, what would?

    I needed to do some inner change. So I did a ritual in which I asked to become stronger, to be able to create my own abundance in life. This is what I needed. Not another spell to just dump money in my lap. But to be able to be my own catalyst in my own life. This was inner work; this was changing me – not just temporarily altering an external situation.

    A short time after completing my ritual, I had a vision from the Gods: I was write my first book The Hidden Children of the Goddess.

    By doing the ritual, I was the catalyst in my own life. I had never written an article. But I had received a vision from the Gods, so I began to write. Because I have dyslexia, I engaged a team of editors. While writing the book, I started writing this blog which now has viewers in over 112 countries.

    By meditating, then doing a ritual and then receiving a vision from the Gods, I was on a new path as a writer. In becoming a writer, I then became a workshop leader.

    So I am living proof that doing a ritual can change your life. And it can start a positive cascade effect until you uplift those around you. And some of us go further so that a ritual is the start of our changing the world.

    So now it’s your turn. Change your world! Make new possibilities bloom in your life and in the lives of others. Listen to your heart. What would you like a ritual to do for you? Look at resources like my book The Hidden Children of the Goddess for rituals and meditations you can do.

    Remember the Gods are always with you. Do a ritual and feel Their support.

    Blessings,

    Moonwater SilverClaw


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