“What happens when coven members have a big disagreement?” my friend, Sandra, asked.

“Each coven tends to have its own rules on disagreements. Also, each coven looks to their Tradition,” I began.

And, here are some thoughts that may help.

1. Seek the leadership of the High Priestess or High Priest.

You go to the leader. Ideally, the leader listens as the concerned people each take a turn to express their views.

2. Ask, “Is there anything else you want me to know?” and then listen.

The leader of the coven listens carefully.

Then when the person appears to have fully expressed themself, one can ask another question. Is there anything else you want me to know?

This shows that the leader cares. It also helps to say back what was said. Then ask, “Do I have that about right?”

The person will confirm it or add some more.

3. Discover together “The Third Alternative.”

In a disagreement, one may find two opposing ideas. If people keep up the discussion, it is possible to find a “third alternative.” Person One wants Alternative One. Person Two wants Alternative Two.

The answer may be the Third Alternative—an idea beyond both suggestions.

You might add a prayer:

Goddess,
Guide us to find a Third Alternative.
May we develop a way to support the whole coven.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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