“My birthday crashed, burned, and then drowned,” I told my friend, Fred.

I wasn’t done.

“My favorite glass water bottle broke. A family member torpedoed my dinner. And my weigh scale was a bastard!”

Have you recently had a brutal day?

It’s worse on a special day like a birthday or anniversary.

I have three insights for you.

1. Release yourself from the “perfect day.”

Have you had a perfect day?

A friend responded, “Who has?”

Even milestone days like a wedding have something go wrong.

The bride’s mother threw up.

The ring-bearing little girl took a tumble down the center aisle.

What do we do with this stuff?

We expand our perspective. It’s like looking at the whole horizon.

In Silicon Valley, California, there is a haze of smog.

Still, we see some blue in the sky and the sun is out… on a number of days.

2. When things go wrong, ask the Gods: “What’s the lesson in this?”

What are the Gods trying to teach you?

An old idea is: “The lesson is repeated until you pay attention. And learn it.”

My first husband was a liar. He used food money on video games – but he had plenty of food because he ate out.

I learned to get strength from Wicca, and I got a divorce.

What lesson can you pull from tough times?

3. Call out to the Goddess.

Here is a prayer you can use.

Goddess,
Help me emphasize the good moments of this day.
Help move past the turbulent moments.
Give me insight.
Give me hope.
Give me peace.
I deeply appreciate Your guidance and Love.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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Goddess Has Your Back: How Wicca Can Help You Raise Your Self-Esteem and Make Your Life Magickal

The Hidden Children of the Goddess Embrace Wicca, Become Strong, Be at Peace with Yourself and the World Around You

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