“Crap! I fell for lies, again!” my friend, Phoebe, said.
“How can I support you?” I asked.
“I don’t know. Wait. Maybe, I should just come to you and voice my doubts before I get too entangled with someone next time.”
This began an important discussion.
I have three insights for you.
1. Find where you are vulnerable.
Are you vulnerable to “Talkers?” How do you know if you are vulnerable?
Here are possible ways to be vulnerable. Are you:
- In a stressful time right now?
- Feeling emotionally vulnerable?
- Transitioning from one stage of life to another?
- Young without certain life experiences?
- Physically older with physical ailments?
Manipulators are like predatory animals. They prey on the weak. They target people due to something they want: Money, sex, or something else.
2. Ask “Is this too good to be true?”
Be careful if you want something too much.
So many people are experts at pulling a con on others.
When possible, step on the brakes.
Get multiple estimates. Check in with trustworthy people. Do relevant research. Type in the name and add “scam” to a Google search.
I like this quote
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”
– Maya Angelou
If you find out that someone does or says something terrible, do not hide. Instead, “believe them the first time.” Protect yourself. Get away.
3. Ask for Goddess’s support so you stay strong and face difficult truths.
Here is a prayer you can use to ask Goddess to empower you.
Blessed Mother,
Give me strength,
Hold me close in Your arms of comfort.
Empower me to weather the storms of my life.
Help me face the difficult truths I encounter.
Give me guidance so I take positive steps forward.
Thank you, dear Mother.
May these insights support your path.
Blessed Be,
Moonwater
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I might add that if one is not of a predatory nature, it can be very difficult to discern those who are. Because they are SO not like who you are. I had to learn the hard way. Now I can spot these individuals a mile away.
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M –,
You raise an important point. We need to pause and make space to be aware of a truly different human being.
It is important to have discussions with friends and elders.
One might even need to practice with a coach or with a therapist – to prepare for unsafe situations.
BB,
Moonwater
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