How Witches Break Patterns that Hold Them Back

Are you looking to have the right pattern to do the right spell or right ritual? We, witches, often want something new and better in our lives. But the problem is: Even if you do put something new into your life, it may not work. You may need to clear something that is blocking your way. You may need to break a pattern.

Here are three insights.

  1. Identify what pattern is giving you a bad outcome.

Is there something in your life that bothers you at this time? Could you be doing a certain behavior that gives you the same result?

Anna, a friend, keeps having the same conversation with a parent.

If she keeps to the pattern, nothing changes.

The idea is to identify what pattern is giving you the bad outcome.

In Anna’s situation, her mother insults her, and she just endures it.

She decides to just speak calmly and say, “Mom, that’s insulting me. And it bothers me. If this keeps going, I’ll need step off this phone call.”

Anna’s new behavior does not change her mother.

But it removes the negative outcome of Anna feeling badly about her taking abuse. Anna’s new pattern is to set boundaries.

What is going on in your life? Look for a pattern and discern whether your outcome is what you want. If it isn’t, you need to find a different way of achieving your goal.

If you are looking to improve your use of magic, you’ll need to discover your true desire.

  1. Discover your hidden true desire in the situation.

Have you ever wondered why you may not be getting what you want? Perhaps, you have been focused on something that is not your true desire.

We ask the Universe and the God and Goddess to aid us in our pursuits. But the Gods know what we really need. It may not be the fancy car or a large home. The God and Goddess know us best. Yes, They want us to have what we desire.

One process is to “Drill Down.”

Here is an example:

Susan says, “I want more money.”
With more money, what do you get?
“Better clothes.”
With better clothes, what do you get?
“People will treat me better.”
When people treat you better, what do you get?

“I get to relax and feel better about myself,” Susan said.

So, Susan really wants to relax and feel better about herself. That is her hidden true desire.

Can Susan feel better about herself without “better clothes”? This question is part of her real path.

  1. Invite the Gods to help you uncover the positive energy to move forward.

If you are not getting what you want, slow down. Reconsider your thoughts. Consult the God and Goddess. Ask Them to uncover what is best for you and to create a positive flow of energy to move forward.

Your first guess may be that you want an expensive car.

In meditation, you might have an intuitive thought that increasing your savings is an important long-term option. Perhaps, that intuitive thought is a gift from the Gods.

The Gods invite us to think things all the way through.

If you need help, ask the Gods to clear your mind and create positive energy so you can manifest an appropriate desire.

When meditating, you may want to express this chant.

Lord of the Sky and Lady of the Moon,
Tailor my wishes to manifest soon.
Guide my thoughts to my needs,
Help me create good energy seeds.
This I ask that you guide me right,
Give me clear and positive sight.
So Mote it Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,

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