Recently, I have received multiple e-mail questions from women who wish to transition into a chapter of life with a loving partner. They speak of devoting all their time to working and taking care of family members like siblings and an older parent.

They sometimes say that they were stupid in failing to devote any time to healthy dating. They also complain of encountering commitment-phobic and abusive men. All of these details are truly serious, and I had multiple conversations with spiritual elders.

It breaks my heart to read emails in which the writer says that she wants to stop feeling empty and scared.

All of these issues and problems are deep and can be quite complicated. Here I will share some links to my relevant podcast episodes (Goddess Has Your Back Podcast) that might be supportive to people who find themselves in any similar situation. I am including these podcast episodes so you hear my friendly voice as support.

• Do what is necessary to strengthen yourself and stay healthy.

Episode 189 How Witches Strengthen Themselves Beyond Having a Thick Skin.

Episode 188 How Witches Can Use a Hidden Shield Against Suffering and Pain.

Episode 187 How Witches Avoid the False Soulmate.

• Organize your own plan of action so that you make space for a loving new partner.

Episode 190 How Witches Declare Their Truth.

Episode 191 How Witches Use the Secret of Comfort.

Episode 185 How Witches Attract a Specific Person.

Episode 183 How Witches Seize Boldness with Their Divinity.

Episode 177 How Witches Separate Wanting Love from Needing Approval

May my episodes support you on your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“That’s it. I give up,” my friend, Kelsey, said. “The lesson is that I’m no good in a relationship.”

As I listened to her, I wondered if that was the real lesson about her latest relationship disaster.

Was there something else to learn?

Here are three insights.

1. Your first guess about the lesson can be wrong.

At 18, I got married. Big mistake.

But if learned the wrong lesson—like giving up on relationships—I would have missed my current, blessed marriage.

Neuroscientists note that people’s brains do not fully develop until age 25. Until this age, the prefrontal cortex that helps curb impulsive behavior is not fully developed.

So, you guessed it. At 18, I made a rash decision.

Some covens do not allow younger members. In part, this relates to the ability to approach spirituality on another level.

The right lesson for me to learn is related to taking your time and getting to know someone.

2. The right lesson empowers you.

Years ago, my sweetheart said, “I’m tired. I’m rushing like a racehorse.”

“Run in better races,” I replied.

The wrong lesson would be: “You’re tired so quit.”

Instead, my sweetheart learned the lesson to be selective. He learned to accept certain speeches over others. These decisions helped us get to Thailand and New Zealand—where he gave speeches.

3. Invite the Gods to guide you

Often, the wrong lesson is the assumption that you don’t have what you want at this moment, and this means you’re doomed to an unfulfilling life.

However, the Gods know that so much in life is cyclical.

“The birth and rebirth of all nature,
The passing of winter and spring,
We share with the life universal,
Rejoice in the magical ring.”
– Doreen Valiente in The Witches Creed

It’s important to do meditation sessions so that you can listen to the Gods and intuition. Then you realize where you are in a cycle. If you’re creating something, are you at the beginning? Is this the Spring of the journey?

You can even look at this in terms of certain friendships. Some friendships are shorter. Are you in a time of winter? Has a particular relationship run its course?

In the following prayer, you can ask for the Goddess’s wisdom.

A Prayer

In moonlight’s bliss
And Goddess’s kiss,
May my path be right,
This moonlit night.
Let my decision
Have precision.
May I learn the right lesson
And know the true reason.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“You said that if I want to prepare to do ritual on the astral plane, it helps for me to begin by practicing visualizing something as simple as a rubber ball,” my friend, Jessica, said.

“Yes,” I replied.

“How am I going to motivate myself to consistently practice visualization?” she asked.

“I have a couple of questions for you,” I began.

Here are three insights.

1. Identify your tendencies.

We begin by looking into your tendencies. I talked with a friend who identified people’s reasons for taking action as falling into three categories:

1. “For the team” person
2. “I want to achieve” person
3. “I want comfort above all else” person

Do you relate to one of these three categories?

Will you do more for others than for yourself? I find that I fit this category. I frequently jump to help friends and family members.

Do you really want to achieve something? Is witchcraft something that you want to master?

Do you want more relaxation and comfort?

The idea is to find out what your tendencies are. Then use what you learn to help you motivate yourself.

2. Support your own path.

Learning and practicing the Craft is work. How do you get yourself to do work?

I found that if I make something a routine, I can get it done.

I also set my timer to remind me to do things—including the time for me to clean my cat’s litterbox.

My point is: You are unique. You will do better when you observe what patterns help you consistently do work … even the work of improvement in the Craft.

For example, I have my morning prayer on my laptop computer. I cannot use my laptop without seeing my morning prayer on it and reciting my prayer early in my day.

What will you do to set up a pattern, so you consistently practice elements of the Craft?

3. Invite the Goddess to show you what can help your unique path.

Here is a prayer.

Prayer to the Goddess

Lovely Lady of the Moon,
Guide me to find my way.
Give me consistency and patience for my growth in the Craft.
Let Your light of intuition guide me to better self-knowledge.
Let me rise in my journey to know myself better with the Craft.
By Your Light may I be free,
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“They called me in for work real early again!” my friend, Arianna, said.

I had nothing to say that could help her. She knew that it would be good to have a good boundary and say, “No” at times. But she didn’t do it.

I just listened with empathy in my eyes.

I have three insights for you.

1. Be aware of the importance of boundaries

I see many people with inadequate skills related to boundaries. I certainly need something like a refresher course. I know we want to help everyone. But we also need to help ourselves. We need to take good care of ourselves so we can help others. So many times, I’ve been on a plane and heard the flight attendant say, “Put on your oxygen mask first before helping others.”

What is an “oxygen mask” in your daily life? What do you need?

We all have responsibilities. But there are several people who will pile on us—if we let them.

What is a healthy boundary? How about getting people to show some respect for your reasonable needs for time off and rest?

      2. Practice saying your boundaries

Do you know what are your boundaries? If not, think about it. You can even take a piece of paper and write down some appropriate boundaries.

I went through a self-defense course called Model Mugging. This is where you practice full force on an instructor. You shout out NO! and do self-defense moves, full force, on a padded attacker.

The same concept can be taken to boundaries as well. Once you have identified a boundary, you need to practice. Say it firmly out loud.

Perhaps, you say something like: “No. I cannot stay late here at work tonight. I have family details.”

Maybe, you might say, “No. You gave me no notice, and I have prior commitments.”

When it is appropriate, state your boundary with resolve.

Need more help? Ask the Goddess for support with your boundaries.

     3. Ask Goddess for support with your boundaries

Here is a prayer to help.

Boundaries Prayer

My Gracious Lady,
Give me Your strength to set up and strengthen my boundaries.
Encircle me with Your protection and guidance to enhance my boundaries.
Teach me better boundaries so that I may remain strong, and I can help others and myself.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“You mentioned 5 elements of casting an effective spell,” a reader said. She went on to ask, “Of the five elements (intent, visualization, concentration, meditation, or willpower), which is the hardest and why?”

Intent

To do successful magick, you need to understand several things. First, you must have intent. You need to know what you want to manifest. You must be specific. You want a car? For what? Perhaps, you want something nice but economical. You don’t want a piece of junk that will break down on you every chance it gets. I suggest you go shopping, perhaps, on the internet. Get to know what you want and like for your car.

Having a solid intent is your first step before you do any magick. Once you have that cornerstone set you can continue with the second thing which is concentration. During your spell, you will need lots of concentration and visualization.

Visualization

When you imagine the car you want, get truly specific. What color? What gas mileage? Or is it an electric vehicle? Here’s an example, if you desire a convertible car, you imagine the wind blowing through your hair as you drive with the top down.

Concentration

This is the process of focusing and then refocusing your mind on your visualization task. In essence, you concentrate on the object and on the images in your mind that are specific for your desired manifestation. You will find that you may need to consciously redirect your mind to focus on the visualization object again and again

Meditation

Some Wiccans begin with a meditation to clear the mind before using both concentration and visualization. Consider doing a simple meditation in which you focus on your breath.

Willpower

When it comes to successfully perform magick, willpower, to me, means the driving force of desire for some form of change. So, I focus on the power of “I will.” This is an important distinction because many people think of willpower as only the ability to avoid temptation. Using your will is deeply rooted in your desire. Lack of will just creates another belly flop.

I’ve now shared with you the five must-haves (intent, visualization, concentration, meditation, and willpower) for doing magick that works.

Let’s return to the question: “Of the five elements (intent, visualization, concentration, meditation, or willpower), which is the hardest and why?”

• For many people, visualizing is truly hard. Some of us actually tune into sound more than images. If you’re doing “visualizing,” you may need to “talk your way through.” You can say something like: “I now drive a blue Toyota 2015 Corolla that was lovingly cared for by the previous owner.” (This is merely an example. Working the words takes effort, time, and care.)
• Because many people get intent wrong, it can be the hardest part. The easiest way to get intent wrong is to think in terms that are too broad and too general.
• Several people find that meditation is nearly impossible for them. Trying to sit quietly can feel awful. Some people find it better to do a walking meditation.
• Willpower can fall apart for several people. Why? When I talk about focusing on the power of “I will,” this may bring up many forms of self-doubt. My friend, Kelsey, said, “I will? Who am I kidding? I’m not strong, and I don’t deserve good things in life.” In this situation, Kelsey has an active ego that is sabotaging her willpower and spell-casting efforts.
• In today’s society of massive distractions including social media and more, developing the skill of concentration is thwarted. My friend, Fred, mentioned how he found it necessary to practice piano every day to achieve a good level of playing skill. Learning to concentrate takes planning, effort, and practice. This can be so hard because many of us return home from work exhausted. You need the energy to develop your concentration skills.

What do you want deep in your heart? Are you willing to pay the price in attention, effort, training, and practice?

May you identify what can elevate your real happiness.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“How do you have hope?” my friend, Kelsey, asked.

I remembered a definition that I heard. The word visionary relates to planning the future with imagination and/or wisdom.

The master [God] and mistress [Goddess] of magic,
They dwell in the deeps of the mind,
Immortal and ever-renewing,
With power to free or to bind.
— Doreen Valiente in “The Witches Creed”

1. Align with the deeps of the mind.

In the deep of your mind, you can feel a true kinship with other human beings and the Gods. Being close to both is important. Still, remember that the ego is about the shallows of the mind. This is where separation and neglect come from. It’s important to realize that the ego is made of fear.

When you find yourself upset, it often comes from the ego’s focus.

On the other hand, in the deeps resides your divinity, gifted to you by the God and Goddess.

It’s vital to do rituals, meditation, and prayer to bring yourself into the deeps of your divinity.

2. Align with your vision, imagination, and wisdom.

Let’s remember that your vision is connected to imagination and wisdom.

You have created better moments for your life. Imagination is what we use daily. If you’re cooking a meal, you imagine how all the flavors will come together. If you’re writing a resume, you’re imagining what the job interviewer needs to know so they hire you.

If you feel tired, shift your thoughts with prayers to the Gods. Invite the Gods to help you hope and dream of a better world for yourself and others. When you take care of yourself, you can brighten another person’s day by smiling and listening to them. One part of the world just got better.

3. Invite the Goddess to help you put aside your ego and fear so you are truly present with another person.

Here is a prayer to help you shift from the ego to your Visionary Self.

A Prayer

Lovely Lady of the Moon
Help me release my pain.
Help me feel safe from the worries of the day.
Help me know my value and what I bring to the world
Give me peace of mind and heart this day.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“No, I’m still not good at the Craft,” my friend, Ally, said.

I felt sad that Ally just couldn’t see her progress.

Still, I understood how she was stuck. My own depression symptoms often keep me stuck in the mud of feeling inadequate.

Here are three insights.

1. Let go of the previous picture of yourself.

When we come to the Craft, we shed our previous life like a snake sheds its skin. We become new.

 “Let the rain weep.
Waken in sunlight from the Realms of Sleep.”
– from Elegy for a Dead Witch by Doreen Valiente

 When we weep for a loved one who has died, on some level we know that they are a soul that continues.

Their body has died.

What wakens in the sunlight? Your True Self.

Ally has a picture of herself. It’s not true. It’s not even real. It is an Obsolete Picture of herself.

The Craft helps us awaken from the deep sleep of the Obsolete Picture of ourselves.

We learn to let go of the bricks that weigh us down.

2. Experience a Ritual of Letting Go of an Obsolete Picture of you.

It’s best to do this ritual on the new moon.

What you will need:

• A drawing or symbol on paper that you create (This is something that symbolizes an Obsolete Picture of yourself.)
• A red string or yarn (natural fibers are best)
• Boline
• Cauldron or a safe container to burn things in.
• Heat proof surface to place the cauldron on.
• Smudge stick, white sage, or stick of incense
• Rose quartz crystal
• Ritual tools for casting circle
• Cakes and wine

Set up your ritual space.

Cast circle in the usual manner.

Cleanse and consecrate your items by doing the following for each.

(Asperge the item with your holy water [See Casting Circle] and say:

I cleanse you of all negativities.

Next, waft the smoke of blessed incense [See Casting Circle] around your item and say:

I bless you for the good of all.

Pick up the rose quartz and say:

Little quartz crystal of mine,
You now represent me in all my love for my new life,
So mote it be.

Tie one end of the string around your drawing or symbol (on paper) which symbolizes an Obsolete Picture of yourself.

Tie the other end of the string to the rose quartz. Be sure to have nine inches between the objects.

Say:

This bond is strong but needed no more.
My Obsolete Picture of myself separates from my True Self.
Old life now separates from new life.

Cut the string between the object (something that symbolizes an Obsolete Picture of yourself) and the rose quartz crystal.

Say:

I am now free to move forward, and I am not hindered by obsolete images and actions.

Use the working candle [See Casting Circle] to ignite the drawing or symbol (on paper) and place it in your cauldron to burn completely to ash.

Light the smudge stick or incense stick on the working candle.

(Smudging is an ancient practice used by Native American and indigenous cultures for centuries to clear away negative energies and invite peace and harmony.)

Waft the smoke around you and say:

I now purify myself of my past life and past obsolete perceptions. I let in all the peace and harmony of the new and good.

Sit and meditate on how your life is changing for the better. Think of all the blessings your new life in the Craft will hold.

Do the Cakes and Wine Ceremony.

Throw the ashes into running water.

3. Ask the Gods to Bless Your New Path.

Talking to the God and Goddess about your life path is a great way to bond with Them. You learn from Them and your inner wisdom.

You can meditate on the Gods and talk to them.

Here is a Prayer/Chant to facilitate this.

Lord and Lady,
Open my ears to hear You.
Open my eyes to see my path.
Open my heart to Your love.
Bless me upon my new path.
So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your journey.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“I’m tired of people saying, ‘You’re too defensive,’” Ally, a friend, said.

She felt beat up by people at work. Ally also felt oppressed by the cruel comments and actions of certain people who are against witches.

“Of course, I’m defensive,” Ally said.

This echoed in my thoughts.

Here are three insights.

1. Shift from “Defensive” to “Quiet Knowing”

Have you noticed that when you’re defensive, it seems that some negativity is attracted to you?

As witches, we hear a lot of negative things about our spirituality. It’s only natural that one may become defensive about our beliefs.

It helps to shift to “Quiet Knowing.” Start with your own heart. Know your own truth first.

Instead of arguing about something defensively, begin with your own heart. Have a quiet knowing and a quiet confidence.

From your quiet center, assess if the other person has any space to make a shift in their perceptions. You may discover that this is not a  “teaching moment” (a moment when the other person wants to learn).

Many times, in your Quiet Knowing, you realize it is time to let go of your desire to change the other person. You let the moment flow by like a leaf on a stream.

When the other person is not present to listen, let it go. You will be much happier and most of the negativity will flow right past you.

We, witches, remember to use a shield for negative energy. (For more about developing your shield click HERE)

Sometimes, you discover in your Quiet Knowing that it is important for you to speak up. My point is: Start from your Quiet Knowing and avoid staying in your ego. Your ego (which is made of fear) can get you into useless arguments.

From Quiet Knowing, you’ll direct your own steps on your better path.

2. Let Go of Anger.

Have you heard someone bash your spiritual path as a witch? We know there are lies out there that cause pain. Have you felt angry about this?

Anger feeds pain. Painful thoughts and feelings.

Worse: Being defensive creates more negativity.

But what if they’re truly wrong? Pause. Are you dealing with someone who has any intention of learning?

If not, it helps to let it go. If it isn’t a teaching moment in which you could help them understand, let go of your anger. Just look at them as another misguided human being. Then, move on to better energy.

We, witches, do better in life when we avoid “walking around with a chip on your shoulder.”

Instead, go to your quiet center.

3. Realize that the Goddess Knows Your Real Worth.

The God and Goddess know your true heart. They see you for you. They do not compare you with someone across the street.

You are so important to the Gods. As you learn every lesson, the Gods’ happiness grows.

Some days, it may feel like no one is listening. But The Gods are with you.

They do all They can to help you. If your life isn’t perfect, that does not mean that the Gods have abandoned you. They are by your side always.

Here is an example. Some years ago, I was in a car accident. It was bad enough. But it could have been worse. I feel that the Gods protected me from a worse outcome. Sure, I wish the car accident never happened. However, the car accident and other related details gave me a true learning experience.

When bad things happen, just remember, it could have been much worse if you didn’t have the Gods on your side.

When some people give you trouble and they try to belittle you, come back to the Gods. It may feel automatic or natural to become defensive. However, there is a better path. The Path of the Gods. The Gods put Their divinity in you. Ultimately, that divinity in you is strong and connected. On the essence level, your divinity cannot be “insulted” by some misguided human’s words.

Through prayer, ritual, and meditation, you have a direct experience of the Gods and your divinity.

Once again, realize that the Goddess knows your real worth.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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“My highest ideal would be to get more sleep,” my friend, Kiley, said.

We laughed about this. Still, I know she was using humor connected to a powerful quote…

“Keep pure your highest ideal; strive ever toward it; let naught stop you or turn you aside.” – Doreen Valiente, writing in the voice of the Goddess

I have three insights for you.

1. Become aware of “your highest ideal.”

Do you know what your highest ideal is? What do you strive for? Is it to serve your community? Or is it simply about “Can I just be awake and on time for work on Mondays?”

Sometimes, it’s not obvious. We can struggle to find our meaning related to excellence. Your highest ideal is connected to excellence.

In another spiritual path, it is said that what is inside you can save you or destroy you. What I get from this is: If we don’t use our gifts, we might fall apart inside. That’s the idea of “destroy you.” You need to nurture your gifts and yourself.

What are your gifts?

2. Take steps each week to support “your highest ideal.”

What does it mean to “keep pure your highest ideal?”

Imagine all the resistance you face when you simply want to be yourself and fulfill your life’s purpose as a witch. People just don’t understand our spiritual path.

As witches, we have a “highest ideal” for each one of us. It’s unique for each person. It is the one thing we are supposed to learn. We are meant to grow. You have a gift to share. By being your true self, you also help others on their paths. So how do you do this? With the Gods’ help.

Taking steps each week to support your highest ideal is about…

• Identify your highest ideal.
• Strengthen yourself with ritual, nutrition, sleep, and exercise.
• Do actions that support your highest ideal.

For example, I write each week and create a podcast episode. These are steps that help me express my highest ideal of service to my readers and listeners.  

3. Include the Gods in your journey for your highest ideal.

Completing your highest ideal can be quite a task. This is the reason I like to ask the God and Goddess for support. You can meditate and ask the Gods for Their help. You can say a prayer like this:

O Lovely Lady and Lord of the Fields,
May you guide me through my intuition.
Speak the sacred silent words of your wisdom into my mind.
Let me flow easily on my path like a rushing river to the sea.
Give me your strength O Lord to accomplish my highest ideal without hindrance.
Give me your wisdom O Lady to accomplish my highest ideal with grace.
May my path be free from useless difficulties.
As I so Will, So Mote It Be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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Beyond the Law of Attraction to Real Magic: How You Can Remove Blocks to Prosperity, Happiness and Inner Peace

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“I couldn’t believe it. No fully stocked first aid kit. They did have some isopropyl alcohol. I said to myself, ‘This is going to hurt.’ So, I poured the alcohol on my cut hand. Damn, it did hurt. That unstocked first aid kit had no Neosporin to avoid infection,” my friend, Abigail, said. She was complaining about her new workplace.

It’s important to have a properly stocked medical first aid kit. What about a spiritual first aid kit? Do you have one? Here are three insights…

1. Create a travel kit—your Spiritual First Aid Kit.

You can put the elements of your Spiritual First Aid Kit into a small box or container for traveling. You can include healing crystals, an electric tea light candle, and a Tarot Deck (or another divinatory device). Perhaps, include a packet of your favorite tea, a small altar cloth, and an offering bowl.

2. Carry supportive spiritual reading.

Carry words of wisdom in spiritual texts. You can use your favorite author’s books or poems.

• Goddess Has Your Back by Moonwater SilverClaw
• A Witches’ Bible: The Complete Witches’ Handbook Paperback–Illustrated by Stewart Farrar, Janet Farrar
• A digital copy of your BOS (Book Of Shadows)

Include what you find nourishing for your soul.

3. Carry a “Spiritual First Aid Prayer”

Perhaps, you’ll write your own prayer. That experience can be both soothing and inspiring.

You can use this spiritual prayer.

Spiritual First Aid Prayer

Gracious Lady and Glorious Lord,
Heal me and hold me for I am injured.
Help me shift my thoughts and energy.
Give me your energy to heal my mind and body.
You are my Source.
Sustain me in this difficult time.
Wrap me in your protection and healing light.
I deeply thank You.
So mote it be.

May these insights support your path.

Blessed Be,
Moonwater

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Break Free with Goddess: Wiccans – How You Can Get Free of Worry, Illness and Anxiety and Enjoy Abundance, Health and Confidence

Be a Wiccan Badass: Become More Confident and Unleash Your Inner Power

Goddess Reveals Your Enchanted Light: Peace, Prosperity, Possibility Along Your Wiccan Path

Beyond the Law of Attraction to Real Magic: How You Can Remove Blocks to Prosperity, Happiness and Inner Peace

Goddess Has Your Back: How Wicca Can Help You Raise Your Self-Esteem and Make Your Life Magickal

The Hidden Children of the Goddess Embrace Wicca, Become Strong, Be at Peace with Yourself and the World Around You

Goddess Walks Beside You: How You Can Listen, Learn and Enjoy the Wiccan Path

Goddess Style Weight Loss: Wiccans — Happy, Healthy and Confident

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